Margaret “Tookie” Borel went peacefully home with the
Lord on August 14, 2013 at the age of 78 having lived a full and wonderful
life.
In this advanced computer age many of you may not remember, but as
a career, Tookie was a phone operator. Remember when you dialed “0” and got, ”Operator,
may I help you?!” or “How can I place this call?”
With sadness, I would like to rerun their story.
“A couple days ago, I heard from my “Favorite”
couple…….Adrian and Tookie! I may get the ages wrong, so let’s just say that
Adrian is in his 80’s and Tookie is in her 70’s. The vitality of these two is
amazing! I had the pleasure of meeting both of them at a place called Gators
located at Treasure Island, Florida, not too far from Clearwater Beach. Well on
Sundays, Gator’s venue is typically a Reggae band. While I was checking out the
local musical talent, I spotted this mature couple on the dance floor, gyrating
to the Soca and Reggae beats with rhythm and stylish swagger. They even had a
couple of line dancing routines that immediately had folks learning the steps
and joining in. I starting meeting up with Adrian and Tookie at Gators every
Sunday and eventually attending other venues with them. It finally became
official; they adopted me as their daughter!
I decided to add this
spectacular couple to my blog today because in December they are celebrating
their 50th (Semi centennial) wedding anniversary! Adrian wrote me
and said, “On December 1st, I will be going to Las Vegas with my “first
lady” to celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary!” He further
said (in reference to me), “40 is the old age of youth and the youth of old
age”. He said I was at the prime of my life and to try everything. He concluded
with, “Let me know when you can ride a camel. I hope you don’t get arrested for
doing something illegal. It is illegal for a woman to drive a car in Saudi
Arabia so don’t try to beat the law by riding a camel. I guess you will have to
get a friend to give you camel driving lesson!”
Considered the
“golden” anniversary, spending half a century in love with the special someone
is a wonderful statement about the gift of married life. Having recited their
marriage vows in 1961 (I wasn’t a thought yet!), Adrian and Tookie are role
models for whomever believe in LOVE. I am emotional writing this piece, but I
celebrate your bond and dedication to one another……”
I will miss you, Tookie,
Your adopted daughter,
GMarie
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